When You Want to Believe in Love but Don’t Know How, Let Taylor Jenkins Reid Write You Back Into It (Picture Credit – Facebook)
Love is one of those words that is as overused as it is misunderstood. We speak about it with certainty, yet many of us stumble when asked what it really feels like or why we continue to chase it despite heartbreak. In the world of contemporary fiction, few writers have captured the contradictions, fragility, and beauty of love quite like Taylor Jenkins Reid. Her novels do not paint love as perfect or inevitable. Instead, they remind us that love is both risk and refuge, both something we lose and something we rebuild.
For readers standing on uncertain ground, those who want to believe in love but struggle to see how it is, it is Reid’s voice that often restores hope. Her characters wrestle with the same doubts, insecurities, and longing that many of us carry quietly. In that honesty, she offers something rare: stories that allow us to recognise our own broken pieces, while suggesting that even shattered glass can catch the light again.
Love as a Question, Not an Answer
What sets Taylor Jenkins Reid apart is her refusal to present love as a neat solution. In ‘One True Loves’, Emma’s life is torn between her husband, presumed dead in a helicopter crash, and her fiancé, the man who helped her heal. This is not a fairy tale dilemma. It is a question of identity: who are we when love collides with grief, and how do we choose when the heart is split in two?
Reid’s brilliance lies in her acknowledgement that sometimes there is no right choice, only the most honest one. For readers, this is liberating. Love does not have to be perfect. It has to be real.
The Myth and Reality of Romance
In ‘Maybe in Another Life’, Reid plays with the idea of fate and parallel lives, showing how small decisions ripple into different futures. While the novel experiments with structure, it never loses its emotional grounding. Love, in Reid’s hands, is not simply about destiny but about the courage to commit to the life you find yourself in.
This dismantles one of the biggest myths we tell ourselves that there is only one path to happiness, one person who defines us. Reid reminds us that love can exist in many forms, and that it is often our willingness to show up for it, rather than wait passively, that gives it meaning.
The Complexity of Marriage
‘After I Do’ remains one of Reid’s most emotionally piercing works. A couple on the brink of collapse decides to take a year apart, free to live separate lives, before deciding whether to stay married. It is a premise rooted not in fantasy but in painful reality: love is hard work, and marriage even more so.
The novel does not promise reconciliation, nor does it vilify separation. Instead, it illuminates the space between, where two people confront their expectations of love, themselves, and each other. For anyone questioning whether love can survive routine and resentment, Reid offers an honest but hopeful lens.
Love Woven Through Ambition
Although Reid is best known for her sweeping romances, her later novels, such as ‘Daisy Jones & The Six’ and ‘The Seven Husbands of Evelyn Hugo’ expand the canvas, intertwining ambition, fame, and power with love. Evelyn Hugo, in particular, has become an iconic character because her story redefines what it means to love bravely in the face of fear and judgement.
These books remind us that love is not always the main storyline but it is always present, sometimes hidden, sometimes burning at the centre of a life. Even when ambition takes over, the yearning for connection is what makes Reid’s characters unforgettable.
Why Reid Resonates Now
In an era where relationships are swiped on screens and often end with little explanation, Reid’s novels resonate because they do not shy away from the messy reality of intimacy. She writes about longing, loss, and betrayal without cynicism, allowing her characters to stumble but still find moments of grace.
For readers who feel jaded, her books are not empty promises that love will solve everything. Instead, they are reminders that love is worth the attempt, worth the heartbreak, because in its best moments, it shows us who we really are.
A Quiet Gift to the Reader
What Taylor Jenkins Reid offers is not a guidebook but a mirror. Her stories show us the beauty in brokenness, the resilience in starting again, and the possibility of finding love not as a fairy tale but as a practice of courage. For anyone struggling to believe, her novels are a gentle invitation back to hope.
Love, after all, is less about guarantees and more about the bravery to keep trying. Reid writes us back into that bravery.